Comments on: How to Tell if a Guy is a Player?

By: Predictor

Predictor — Sat, 05 Mar 2011 06:30:10 +0000

Stupid guys.. they think with ther little weeners instead of ther brains

By: Chris

Chris — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 03:47:02 +0000

This is about half accurate. This is written by a woman, thus it is from a female perspective. I enjoy looking at the other genders standpoint and perception on things like this hence why I read the article. In all honestly, a true player would never follow half of those generalizations.

By: Lyndsay Cabildo

Lyndsay Cabildo — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 05:12:06 +0000

Thanks for sharing your tricks John!

By: John

John — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 09:48:27 +0000

I’m sorry, but this article describes an anti-player.

1) Players do not make women feel uncomfortable. They make women feel a little too comfortable, thus being able to bed them.

2) A real player will get the number but not in an overtly aggressive way. They like to make the girls come to him, not the other way around.

3) Players do not boast about how many women they have as that would be a HUGE red flag. Any guy that tries to boast about how many women he has had to his target is NOT a player. He is a moron.

In conclusion, players make women feel comfortable, can make them laugh, can tease them, are very confident, draw women to him instead of chasing after women, mysterious (do not divulge too much life information), can become physical with a woman and make her feel comfortable, do not call or contact a girl too much…. now this would make for an all around great guy except for one thing. He is using these techniques will all the girls he finds attractive… another words, a player.

By: Lyndsay Cabildo

Lyndsay Cabildo — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 12:29:39 +0000

Thanks Mabel! But this is just too simple facts, you take care of yourselves, there are better player out in the field that I might not tackled here… Just be smart and you’ll be ok.

By: mabel

mabel — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 07:53:27 +0000

hi lindsay, ive enjoyed reading your blogs. it will educate us women on how to guard ourselves with the predator.

By: Lyndsay Cabildo

Lyndsay Cabildo — Sat, 25 Jul 2009 09:31:27 +0000

I hate to say this, but he truly is a player. Girl, it’s just an act to flatter you and stuff so he could easily get access to your comfort zone. Be careful, these guys are lurking to find the easy prey. However, if you are starting to develop this feelings, you can be sure he does develop a little bit towards you as well. The thing is, if they are focused to the ‘it’ goal, it won’t matter. They think differently when levels of ‘libidos’ are high enough to make them no difference to animals.

Guys that are really into you, wouldn’t even try to ask that question because it doesn’t matter to them whether you have done it or not. The thing is, if you’ve done it before, you’re quite an easier prey to persuade than V- girls. Keep your guards up around these guys girl.

By: Miz Nina

Miz Nina — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 14:56:20 +0000

Hey…i like what you wrote! awesome stuff! while i was reading trough, i just couldnt stop myself but go “OMG! he so did that!” im currently in my 2nd yr psychology degree…but one thing i still can’t figure out is the MALE SPECIES! i know this guy and we are friends, it started off as a flirtatious relationship and later on he went on askin if i’ve done ‘it’ b4 or not, he then said he ‘popped’ with his last ex-gf who used him, then he talked about his ex-gf’s, then as days pass by i developed a strong interest in him as he keeps flattering me with words such as “you’re hot”, “you’re cute and just the kind of girl i’d want”. Then one day i tried showing him signs that i might want us to be together, then he said he’s just interested in an open relationship at this point after his post-traumatic exp with his ex-gf! now we still talk to each other but he still does the dirty talking when he clearly stated that we should just remain friends and see how things mite go on in future… truly…he’s a nice guy…but i dunno if his just confused or he really is a jackass!

By: Lyndsay Cabildo

Lyndsay Cabildo — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:12:06 +0000

Yeah, absolutely! But that’s kinda rude in a way. It was fine if he wanted to talk about his gf, but asking you out after that? Oh no no!

By: green_bit(h

green_bit(h — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 04:13:18 +0000

yeah i can tell if a guy is a player or not easily by experiences like onetime i was in a restaurant and then a guy came up to me and started talking to me we started a conversation and he kept talking to me about all his ex gfs(he also kept complimenting me) and then he told me omg i forgot to call my gf she is goin to get pissed at me (and he kept talking bout his gf)… a couple of hours later after talkin and talking he asked me out and for my numba n i told him didn’t you say you had a gf and he kept denying it… NOW DATZ A PLAYA… well peace pplz of da worldz c ya…